Perihal Kawan

Kawan,friends...
Yes, everyone do have lots of them, even me myself.
But among that many so-called friend, which one can be your true friend? The one you can rely on when you have problems. I can say that I have several of that,not much. Maybe around 3 or 4 persons.

Yang aku nak sebut kat sini bukan pasal true friends,their characteristic or how much do you have them.Aku nak sebut pasal attitude as a friend.

Aku,as a friend,memang ada banyak kelemahan. Aku sendiri mengaku. I dont keep in touch that much with my friends if we are far apart, even the closest one. Tapi x bermakna aku x ingat dorang. Aku ingat cuma memang tabiat semulajadi aku malas men'contact' orang. Sorry friends >_<

Aku sedar yang aku kadang2 suka berkira dengan kawan2 aku.And aku tau ramai je yang x suka dengan perangai aku tu. Aku memang jenis yang cepat panas dan cepat melenting.Aku pun jenis yang cepat terasa cuma aku pandai cover.

Semua kelemahan aku tu,memang aku harap aku dapat ubah.Tapi sometimes,the are several attitudes that you shouldnt do to your friends.

I have friend,a close one,that when she is with others,particularly not so close friends,she is being extra nice to them,all smiles and laugh and all the good quality a friend should have. And yet, when she is with me,ermm....not so much.Yes,they said that when u are close with someone,you act your trueself.But that doesnt meant you can treat your friend like that.Bila dengan kawan2 biasa,boleh pulak x berkira,x cepat terasa or get angry with that person. But bila dengan kawan yang rapat,salah cakap sikit dah terasa,benda kecik nak berkira and sometimes,cakap dengan nada yang x ssuai.Menegur dgn cara perli.Ada ke rules yg ckp,when u are closed with that person,u can talk and give advice in any way that u like?And another thing yg aku pantang and cukup x suka orang buat,tangguh kerja.Cakap nak buat and then x buat.And then blame others for it.Or blame that others is too dependant on them =_="

And as a friend,when u have problem,x perlu la nak lepaskan perasaan dan ketensenan tu dekat orang lain.It's okay to be moody.Semua orang ada bad day.But,that's the point.EVERYONE HAVE A BAD DAY.EVERYONE HAVE PROBLEMS.Cuma dorang x tunjuk.X expresskan depan orang lain.You think,with taking out on others or weeping around like u are the only one who have problems,will make others care for you more??
NO2.BIG NO here.


Everyone have problems.Someone else may have a family members dying of cancer.Someone may have siblings that hate them and trying to find faults in every single thing they do.Someone may dont have enough money to meet the ends.Someone may feel insecure because they think,everything they do are not good enough even though what they want is a simple recognition from others.

Jadi,as a friend,maybe every single one of u including me should watch our attitudes.We dont realize that what we say may hurt others.We often care bout ourself more than others..

ps:post yg xde motip.lebih kepada nak luahkan perasaan =_=" bukan berniat menuduh ssiapa.just nak ambil iktibar..